What are the 12 habits that destroy your focus and productivity?
- Comparison -
- the grass is (always) greener (on the other side)
- You will always find someone better or having more than you
- Stop comparing yourself with others you are just hurting your self identity -
- Procrastination
- I will do it tomorrow - & that tomorrow never comes
- Dreaming
- Daydreaming without action is just a wish which everyone has to see himself at the top
- But you have to make a plan and put all your energies in right direction so that you can turn your dreams into reality
- which only 1–2% people make it rest keep dreaming
- Blaming
- It is the most easiest task to do -
- Shift all your mistakes to situations , peoples , teachers ,parents
- example - I failed the exam because my teacher doesn’t know how to teach
- paper was tough (excuses)
- Take responsibility of your life - blaming others will lead to self - degradation -
- If you feel teacher is not good - change the teacher - use online medium
- anything
- Watching Motivational Videos
- Is just like pumping a punctured tyre -
- they may last for a day , a week or till the duration of video
- Use them as lesson (upgradation of knowledege - learning new things ) not a solution ex- watching 100+ videos daily
- Develop inner motivation -
- Ask yourself
- what do you want to become ? or
- Where do you want to see yourself after 10 years ?
- Your reason should motivate you
- Overthinking
- Just like a fan or person running on the same ground in circular motion
- It is useless -
- Talk yourself out of it by noticing when you’re stuck in your head. You can tame your overthinking habit if you can start taking a grip on your self-talk — that inner voice that provides a running monologue throughout the day and even into the night.
- Multitasking -
- You can’t fill all glasses at the same time -
- Learn to prioritize things
- make a list of all the things you do divide them into parts
- Useless or useful (as per u)
- Avoid Checking mobile (notification ) /using laptop unless required
- Learn to minimize distractions
- It may take time
You are special
Stop following the crowd blindly
Keep building yourself
All the best
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