How can I be more mature and confident?
Here are the things I think you should do
- Stay away from all useless influencers such as shy and immature people.
- Start meditating as this will make your thoughts clearer and improve your focus.
- Read about evolutionary biology! I don't care if you are a self help junkie (a drug addict)or not, you need to know why you function the way you do so you can better know how to function well.
- Start laughing at your negative thoughts. Self doubt will arise, taking it seriously is just you shooting yourself in the foot. Be smart instead, learn to listen to your negative critic and laugh at it.
- Find out who you want to be. In the past I used to say I wanna be confident, but that's not enough. You need to be specific, what behaviors do you want? what values? what lifestyle?
- Tell someone that cares about you all of it. Being vulnerable is our greatest fear however if you want fast growth, you need it. Willpower will only take you so far. Tell a close friend and ask for help.
- Realize that Rome isn't built in a day. You won't be ultra confident in 21 days. This will take time so don't go rushing in with a faulty mindset.
- Start small and level up. Learn to find the smallest things you can do to be like your future model and slightly level up.
- Fake it till you make it.
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